Thursday, December 3, 2009

c.h.a.n.g.e.



A series on healing is emerging. Here is the first installment.

Each of us is experiencing change at all times. In fact, we are change. Thoughts flow, blood circulates, emotions surge, breath varies in rhythm, relationships wax and wane, life's meaning crystallizes and disappears. We are in process. We are process.

Change for each of us can be either Continuous Hassle Amidst Newly Generated Energy or Continuous Healing Amidst Newly Generated Energy. We are the ones who decide whether it is hassle or healing.

How do we do this? What is the process by which we choose a sickening hassle or an enlivening healing? I am not so interested in why we hassle ourselves as to how we do it and how we can shift to a healing mode. (Less whyning, more howling.)

Mister Buddha said if you have a poisonous arrow stuck in you, you want to get it out, not sit around and talk about the arrow's history, quality of workmanship, why it is stuck in you rather than someone else, and such. You want to get it out.

We either hassle ourselves or open to healing within five realms of being: physical, mental, emotional, interpersonal, spiritual. These realms of course are not independent of each other. The goings-on in one realm will affect all other realms.

For example, you may believe that folk don't know what you are thinking, but your thoughts are continually expressed through your physical posture and expression, the emotional energy you release, the rhythm of your interpersonal dance, and that subtle yet powerful realm we call spirit.

The energies of the five realms move as one. Hassle in one produces hassle in all. Healing in one produces healing in all. You might say it is a CHANGE reaction.

(To be continued)

4 comments:

  1. Thanks for this. No one wants to admit we need change. We are too busy defending what we are. As I read this I have two reactions - One, can't wait for the next installment. Two, appreciative of the time to discover if I am whyning or howling.

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  2. "We are too busy defending what we are." This is part of and a sure sign of our illness -- to try to keep ourselves static and unchangeable when we are ever-changing. It is like trying to turn a river into thick mud. Why would one even want to do such a thing? Potential answers: fear, insecurity, ignore-ance of reality.

    We do not need change. We ARE change.

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  3. Ginny summed up my feelings very nicely. Thanks, Ginny!

    Regarding your response, George, defending ourselves is a sure sign of our illness indeed. I recognize the illness in myself as it unfolds sometimes. Sometimes I can pull the arrow out right away. Sometimes I indulge in all the ways you mention above. Your words have done some healing already! I'm looking forward to the next installment. Thanks!

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  4. Two 'hassle' reasons for change:
    1. Try to be what someone else thinks you ought to be.
    2. Try to be what you think you ought to be.
    Neither one works.

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