Monday, June 14, 2010

death

Though we are a death-dealing society,
raining destruction on everything we touch,
collectively and as individuals we fear death.
We can dish out death but we just can't take it.

We continue searching to eliminate aging.
While we look to find a cure for death,
we frequent body chop shops for tucking and pleating and bleaching.
We worship our appearance and neglect our soul.

We forget that we are integral streamings
of a cosmos that has no beginning and no end.
We came out of the streaming into this form
and shall leave this form as the streaming that we are.

To try to prop up the form forever
is a cruel and ignorant joke.
We have mistaken the scab for the wound.

"Live forever, O crustaceous one!" becomes our battle cry.

Laying the scab to rest is no cause for fear or weeping or mourning. The ancient wisdom saying is: Weep for those who are born and rejoice for those who die. Of course we hilariously pathetic bipeds
run that one bassackwards.

Fear life, not death.
Better still, fear neither.

I love the scab of my embodying.
I treat it well.
But I lay it on the altar of the eternal.

I die before I die.
And am thus thoroughly alive.

3 comments:

  1. Does anyone here have any links to "handbooks" on Dying and Death?
    I have read and re-read Ram Dass's "Still Here: Embracing Changes, Aging and Dying".. he has done workshops, etc. which I'm sure most of you are aware of.
    I am wondering if anyone has read or knows of other resources that hit close to home, and that you consider recommending .
    Thanks, HB

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  2. Harlan: Search out Ken Doba or Robert Neimeyer. Thank you, George. Reminds me of Alberto Villoldo's comments in Illumination: The Shaman's Way of Healing: "When we try to put on the brakes by experiencing our passage only at the level of hormones and wrinkles...we mimic--but forestall--the deep shift that can occur."

    And the Christian hymn from my childhood:

    "Time like and ever-rolling stream,
    Bears all its sons away.
    They lie forgotton as a dream
    Dies at the opening day"

    Steve

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  3. How to Survive the Loss of a Love.
    Peter McWilliams, Harold H. Bloomfield, Melba Colgrove -- Authors
    A lightweight guide that's frequently been known to help unstick the stuck.

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